Bitter or Better?

In this message, Pastor Lance talks about bitterness and how we can be bitter or get better. He speaks of the hidden dangers of bitterness and how we can get rid of it.

It usually starts as a hurt, like an argument with a friend or family member. If left unchecked, that hurt will continue to grow, turning into anger or resentment and eventually deep-rooted bitterness.

To guard against it, be mindful of how you process hurt. When someone hurts you, do you tend to:

1. Replay the conversation in your head over and over 😭

2. Make up a conversation where you tell them what you really think 😤

3. Vent to friends, family members, or on social media 😡

When a conversation triggers you, or you feel yourself dwelling on something painful from your past, do the unthinkable: Let it go, lead with kindness, and live out forgiveness! Ask God for His help. The more you practice forgiveness, the easier it will become.

Watch this message for a deeper dive into what the Bible calls the "root of bitterness."